May 28, 2017
Dear Loved Ones,
I was happy to see so many of you celebrating Memorial Day in your various locations. I knew today would be hard for me to not be with you, so I invited my friends from the Ward, the Kunze, to dinner. The dinner was something of a disaster. I walked in from church and realized I hadn’t put the potatoes and carrots in the crock pot. I raced around to get them started in the microwave, but I had to just invite them to sit down while it finished up. “Pride goeth before the fall”. I was really proud of the cupcakes I made yesterday for them. She is “gluten free” and dairy free. I found a box of gluten free cake mix and used coconut oil in place of the butter and used Marsali’s banana cake recipe. They were delicious! Then I went a blew the dinner. Such is life!
After dinner, they told me about “The Field of Heroes” that the high schools in Pocatello with help of local military units erect on the soccer field of Century High School. I went with them to see for myself. It is an amazing project to erect crosses or stars of David for every serviceman killed in Afghanistan and Iraq since 9/11. Each cross bears the name and unit of the serviceman. There is a special row along the driveway with larger crosses for those from Idaho that died. There are even larger crosses with pictures of those who received the Medal of Honor. It is a very sobering site. You realize all the happy hours the rest of us have enjoyed since 9/11, and then you stand in front of the cross of a local soldier and see the notes left that say “Love and miss you Dad”. It brought to my mind Memorial Days in Washington DC which were always centered on the fallen warriors. As much as I enjoy our Memorial Day dedicated to our ancestors, I think we should be careful to remember why Memorial Day was created and incorporate tributes to those who have given their lives in defense of liberty. We are so blessed to not have a family member who died serving their country. Uncle LaMont served in the Navy in WWII, Uncle Alden in the Coast Guard, Uncle Grant was in Germany repairing Tanks, Uncle Ken was in the South Pacific and was on an Island where Japanese troops walked over him where he was hiding, my Dad was in Arctic, then during Viet Nam Craig flew fighter jets –All were spared to make it home. That is a blessing we should not forget!!!
Check out https://www.facebook.com/IdahoFieldOfHeroes/ They have a video that they made 2014 which was the first year they created the memorial. I think I will go to the closing ceremony tomorrow night. I didn’t have my camera with me today and I would like to have some pictures.
I’ll send this letter now and send more tomorrow if I do something interesting.
Love to all of you,
Mom/Grammie/Sister Shill






